Unfair?

To struggle with freaking out at my vendors? So, I had very sweet experiences with most of my vendors. I felt like they cared about my wedding, worked hard to deliver the services that we hired them for, and for the most part became friends. So....fast forward to not quite a month after the wedding and now I am thinking that being friends with a vendor might be a major mistake!

My videographer (a friend through my job) was super reasonable, nice, and responsive. And I still do not have a video, or even a sneak peek! And he is by Facebook friend and I can see on his status that today he is working on a manuscript...NOT MY VIDEO.

The photographer who shot my BM's in our vintage inspired photo shoot is a new friend, someone who I felt I really hit it off with and is full of great ideas, an entrepreneur and pioneer. Also, someone who has texted me, emailed, and is a FB friend. She eloped to San Francisco City Hall last week and is now a newly wed. How rude is it to write to her and say, Congrats on your wedding, I want my photos NOW?

And honestly, if I even get into Jerry Yoon and how badly I would like just ONE PICTURE of my wedding, I might have a conniption. So, I will just ask, "Can you please, please, post ONE photo, or at least send me an email letting me know when they might possibly happen?" That's not too crazy right?




All these beautiful photos were taken by my DJ. Yeah.